Pros and cons of dating a divorced man cultural dating perspectives
I’ve slept with a lot of older women and younger women, and I have to say that in general (and again, there are many exceptions), less picky.There’s a light and eagerness in younger women’s eyes during sex that frankly, most older women don’t have.It’s true there are several subcategories within these two broad groups, but I already covered them here. Younger Overview Before I get into this, remember that everything I’m saying here is a generalization. There are very low-ASD 38 year-olds who will bang you on the first date within an hour or two of meeting you with no resistance at all. Generally speaking, younger women are much easier in the pickup/dating phases, but tend to be harder and more work long-term in the relationship phase.The younger they are, the more these are both true.Things that used to be enjoyable to her, like sex on the first or second date, or very casual sexual relationships, are now suddenly horrible and largely unacceptable.That doesn’t mean dating women over 33 is 100% bad.The second woman is robotic with dead eyes.) You could argue that some younger women are faking this enthusiasm during sex, and maybe under certain scenarios they are, but that reinforces my point; it shows they care more about your experience than an older woman who refuses to show any enthusiasm, fake or otherwise.
Yet overall, I have to say that younger women tend to be better here.
In other words, a 18 year-old is going to be easy during pickup/dating phase and an absolute cluster fuck during the long-term relationship phase, whereas a 28 year-old is going to be less easy during pickup/dating and less difficult during the relationship phase. They are absolute nightmares in the pickup/dating phases, but if you are somehow able to persevere, put up with all the ASD, bullshit, woman logic, and ridiculous demands (and in the case of the fast sex model, get very lucky with sex that occurs relatively quickly), then ongoing relationships tend to be easier and more reliable with these women.
The problem is the words I personally don’t like waiting more than two or three dates with zero sex, since I don’t see the point, and there are too many pretty women in the world who are perfectly happy having sex on date two.
There are great things about dating younger women, and very bad things.
There are great things about dating older women, and very bad things. First, as always, we need to get our definitions straight. Longtime readers know that in general, I separate the “older” vs. As I’ve discussed many times here, when a woman crosses over age 33 (if not sooner), her ASD spikes into the stratosphere and her entire attitude about dating, men, and sex changes forever.
Instead, we need to break things back out into three categories: VYW (18-22 year olds), moderately young women (23-32 year-olds), and older women (33 ).